November 5, 2013
Barn Party 2013
As a first effort, I am all and all pleased though. I know that I was exhausted, but still had a great deal (perhaps more than I should) of fun. I think that everyone had a good time. I was sad that neither of my locally residing sisters could come—one because of work and the other a scheduling conflict, but it was so much fun having all four of my children, their own children, my nephew and his family, and the various friends and significant others who did attend. Costumes ran the gamut from funny to frightening. We had pirates, ninjas, cartoon characters and a goddess; a flapper, a kitty, two wizards, one mostly conventional and the other techno, and perhaps my favorite, a "bag" of Jelly Belly jelly beans.
The day of the party, with the typical fickleness of weather when plans have been laid, was blustery and wet. After a week of Florida sunshine and unseasonably warm weather, a front was moving through. My hair in rollers, I balanced an umbrella while I made the numerous trips between house and barn required in preparation for the party. Though we maintained the optimistic outlook that it was nearly over all day, the periodic rain and drizzle continued right up until about a half hour before the party was scheduled to begin. As my daughter and her husband arrived and began setting up their tent in the back yard, the clouds parted. I came walking out of the barn in time to see everyone pointing up at the sky. As the sun was beginning to set in the west, the eastern sky was alight with a sparkling rainbow. We accepted it as an omen and a blessing.
It was an evening of many more treats than tricks. We were busy baking and preparing food for two days before the party, and everyone who attended contributed goodies of their own. I was, as I always am before a celebration, worried that there wouldn't be enough food. My nephew assures me that this is a family trait. We always end up with way too much.
There were enough baked goods left, even after I sent everyone home with trays, to feed an army. My kitchen counter still looks like a Halloween bakery display. You can find links to the recipes for the cookies, brownies and rice crispie bars pictured here on the All-Hallows Board of my Pinterest account, as well as all sorts of party, costume and decorating ideas. This site really pulls together content from so many fine bloggers and other websites that you would never find otherwise. It really streamlines planning an event of almost any kind.
Besides the sweets, we also had slider sandwiches, chicken wings, stuffed peppers, meatballs, spinach dip in a hollowed bread loaf, layered tortilla salad, and too many other things to list. For beverages we had everything from a punch bowl on the buffet table with spooky cranberry juice frozen hands floating in it, to a large caldron (tub) filled with ice, sodas, bottled water, apple juice and beer. One daughter made her signature sangria, and the other brought jello shots. There was even a small mason jar of apple pie moonshine made by my nephew. Something for everyone.
Aside from eating and drinking, there was much else going on. I had outdoor lights on all around the house, but still there were plenty of spooky shadows. The children dashed around the yard as though it were daylight. All of them were wielding glow sticks and wearing glowy necklaces for ease of location, and their happy laughter echoed through the night. There was a scavenger hunt for them. We found out that the seven and eight year olds are smarter than most of us adults. My son had put together a string of charming rhyming clues to help them locate various treasures around the barn, and the speed with which they progressed from one to another absolutely floored us. Though they are fiercely competitive, we made sure that this game was a team effort and that there were prizes for all involved. There was also a costume contest, and though again, we had prizes for all the children, I did learn another valuable lesson. We voted for costumes, and next time I will count ballots in private. My small granddaughter and grand-nephew, being intensely excited, hung over my shoulder as I counted. Though they did not begrudge her, they were both upset that the youngest among them, with the charming appeal that toddlers have, had gotten all the children contest votes. Though they were both mollified by the location of a couple of "lost" ballots with their names, and gift bags, I wont let that happen again.
I did finish the fire pit in the back yard, but after a day of rain, we did not expect to have a bonfire. However, as it turned out, there was a canvas bag of firewood that had been laid aside in the garage after we moved in, and forgotten. With some newspaper and dry wood to use, as well as a more autumnal evening than those we had previously, most of the lawn chairs in the barn were moved around the fire, and inner-children emerged left and right when folks began roasting marshmallows.
As I end this post, I just want to thank all those who attended and contributed to such a wonderful evening. It was great fun. I think together we managed to light up the Darkness for another year, and though the walls between worlds might have thinned, they held. Love and Joy and Light will do that.
I hope that all who read this enjoy the photos and description of our All Hallows Party. Halloween is for many of us the beginning of the busy and hopefully joyous holiday season. If we can all remember to eat and drink in moderation, to keep our expectations realistic, and to just relax rather than trying to do and be everything, it can be a wonderful season indeed.
Blessings to you...
Thank you to Bree and Larry for the Photos. Usually, the photos in this blog are my own, but I was too busy to get much in the way of pictures Saturday night, so I had some help :)